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Paying it Forward - A New Direction

Discussion in 'Community Discussion' started by vtac, Apr 23, 2014.

  1. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    Through discussion on FB, about obtaining vaporizers, I ran into a lady my own age.
    A Card holding patient, who has had cancer, and a half dozen surgeries around that in the past 3 years.
    Her last surgery was recent, and she wants to vaporize.
    She has vaporized before.....
    Her Mom has a Volcano, and before her rough financial situation she owned and LOVED a Vapir NO2.
    An hour long consultation over the phone, helped me to understand her needs.
    She medicates all day... and when on the road, so we arranged a Skype session to demo what she would be doing... and I gave her links to a few videos.
    She will receive by mail, a donated VaporBrothers box, and she will get a portable with it.
    She wants her portable to be unround, and not easily confused with an e-cig.
    She asked for it to be the form factor of a deck of cards.
    She does not want a tight draw. (I originally was thinking CFX, but that changed my thinking)
    I am waiting for her response today which will tell me which portable to send to her with her desktop.
    She gets to choose between an Odin by TopBond, or she can have the Smite by Zeus, donated by @Baron23 .
    Both function in a way that she will find easy. I described the flaws and good parts of each, and she will watch many videos, and will be reading about both units right here on FC.
    I check FB at intervals to see what she has decided, but she is watching vids and reading reviews before making a choice.
    I like that.
    Think before you decide.
    I am trying to get her to join the Forum to learn and participate.
    I will pop back in and tell you all what portable she has selected.
    Thanks for allowing me to share!
     
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  2. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    I never properly thanked @mistvaporizer for his generosity in sending a new unit to show patients, and perhaps one of these patients will be taking one of these home soon.
    Thanks for caring and for spreading the knowledge!
     
  3. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    We had a number of visits since my last post.
    Sometimes it is hard to get to this thread and spell out all that has happened, but I love to share moments that make Patty and my consciences feel like we have done something really right.
    Yesterday, we got to visit with a patient that has been a friend for a number of years..
    He has a myriad of health conditions that qualify him as a patient, and things go sometimes from bad to worse for him.
    He had a damaged spine, which prevents him from turning his head in either direction.
    He drives anyway, and has had a few fender benders..... one of which hurt his lower spine a few years ago.
    He has leg issues, one of which are growths behind the patella in the knee, that have been removed twice, and came back, and found to be cancerous.
    Now he is in chemo for the Cancerous tissue in his knees.
    His Pain was what he was always treated for, and what I tried to help with.
    Now like me his worst enemy has become Nausea, after each chemo session.
    He has the tools for medicating, but has been using makeshift pieces because he did not want to "bother" us ... he thought we had enough on our plate trying to recover from the Police action of a couple years ago..
    He came over yesterday, and left with a collection of replacement parts for his Solo, E-cig type pen, his wax pen, and his SSV.
    He got:
    • 2 solo stems -one bent and one straight
    • screens for same.
    • Battery for his e-cig
    • new atomizers for his Dabbler
    • New hose for SSV
    • Miniwand from Vapor Warehouse for his SSV (his preferred wand).
    • Some Candy that I eat when I get sick, to help with his Nausea.
    • Patty brought in a few Armenian Cucumbers and Bok Choy for him to bring home.
    And he left with a big smile.
    More people that feel unwell need to be given a reason to smile.
    Seeing them smile, makes me breath easier.
    Patty loves sharing her vegetables.
    We both slept well last night.
    Thanks for reading~
     
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  4. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    Any of you that have read about my attempts to help a young man afflicted in the same way as myself.....
    will recall the story of Sammy.
    The last I posted was...
    So at this point after a dozen calls a day for two months, to Adult Protective Services, and to ALTECS (Arizona Long Term Care for disabled) I was able to establish a rapport with various case workers and managers, as well as Social workers and Independent Living Facilities....
    And also have gotten Sammy's approval (on paper) to be his authorized representative.
    The appropriate authorities have visited Sammy in person, and correct laws enforced, and Sammy's expenses are now paid for life... more than Patty and I live on by far.
    "I am envious", I told him.
    "You've got it made in the shade!"
    He was in wonder that he had such fortune.
    I reminded him about getting him a medical Marijuana Card.
    The "new" Sammy looked at me soberly and said...
    "One step at a time Vitocelli" (pronounced vee-tuh-chell-ee)
    "I need to get into therapy and moving again.. it's gonna take me a few months"

    Sammy is on his way.
    I just wanted to catch you all up on a story I began here a while back, and let all know that once in a while the system works.
    I will continue this particular tale when Sammy has a card and learns to vaporize "our medicine".
    P.S.....
    Thanks @grokit for the whip/wand, and thanks to other anonymous donor for the surprise package....
    The Grizzly Guru (new Vaporizer) has a home for tomorrow... July 4th!.
     
    Last edited: Jul 4, 2017
  5. Baron23

    Baron23 Well-Known Member

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    Just curious, Vito...which did she chose, the Odin or the Smite? I am very glad that the Smite either has, or will, find a home with a patient and provide needed help. (PS - for those that don't know, the Smite is just a rebranded Flower Mate Pro...decent mid-range conduction vape, very easy to use).

    Cheers
     
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  6. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    She chose the Odin for The Vibration.
    The Smite she was offered was a recent donation.... a 2nd Zeus.
    The Smite that you sent has been given the nickname "Baron" after you, by the owner has read posts here on FC... and is aware of his benefactor.
    Burdened with crippling arthritis, the Smite's straightforward design was what he wanted.
    @Baron23 .... thanks for remembering, and checking!
     
  7. Baron23

    Baron23 Well-Known Member

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    Thanks Vito...you truly do the good work. Glad the Smite found a home and glad that the lady found a vape that suited her. All good, mate.

    Do you still have a wish list out there in the classifieds (I should just look, yeah LOL).

    Best to you and Patti.
     
  8. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    A Grizzly Guru Vaporizer came my way.
    This unit found a home faster than many... as I have a gal who has been wanting a glass mouthpiece... and and likes high temps.
    The Grizzly has an all glass vapor path... has wax cart, and e-juice cart.
    All 3 of this gal's favorite features in one.
    During testing, I found that I needed to bump the temperature to the top to get quality vapor.
    The patient loved that about it!
    Less to think about... just always leave it at the top, she said.
    We tested it together and it was a match!
    Thank you to the anonymous donor, for a less than commonly seen Vaporizer (for me it was a first time)... for a unique gal!
    She sends love and I send thanks.
     
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  9. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    A couple of things going on in these parts.....
    perhaps enough to warm some hearts.
    Patients helped, donations made.
    Very good party... I am glad I stayed!

    Only Wednesday and the week has been full to the brim (as far as warm fuzzies go).
    I want to give a shout-out and deep thanks to @steama for the donation of a much sought after item... an SSV. Not only a Standard with Hand Held Wand ( the preferred configuration for 90% of local patients), but set up with the @DDave Mod and extras. new Hands free device for those wanting to "connect" their Standard Set-up to hands free usage.
    Custom perfectly sized BackPack too!.
    I have 5 patients on waiting list for this vape, and their requests all came in the same week.
    Propriety dictates first request chronologically take precedence, however this becomes more complex.
    I have to think of needs.
    3 of the 5 have vaporizers, but want an SSV.
    2 have portables but asked for an SSV.
    I am going to have to choose one of the two that has a portable.....
    My reasoning:
    1- He had an SSV but lost it during moves that were thrust upon him due to Poverty level living combined with Chemotherapy.
    2- He accepted a portable from me because his living condition was uncertain and he was living in a car part time.
    3- He has emailed me a number of times over this year asking if there was an SSV, and upon learning there was not, he said.... "Help your other Patients with the vapes you get.... I will use the Pax you gave me until an SSV is around and available..
    4- I did not mention that this survivor was not only a cancer survivor, but like me a Survivor of TBI.
    This means that he also has a Traumatic Brain Injury.... and as I know all too well change hurts.
    Missing pieces of your life hurts.
    Replaced pieces of parts of one's life that are missing bring closure.
    THIS is the patient with greatest need for this SSV.
    Thanks @steama for helping me provide closure here....
    I get to play the part of Hero, only because of your generosity.
    You are the real Hero here, though!

    Next:
    Facebook made a demand on my account "MMJ Vaporist" that I use a real persons name.
    I have hundreds of friends on FB, and so I had to send all a notice of the change.
    I picked a name that included MMJ.
    I invented Max Milton Johnson as a temporary name, while I thought of how to circumvent using my real name.
    Turns out I must now leave "Max Milton Johnson" as my identity for 60 days.
    HOWEVER... the notice to my friend list did bring a patient out of the woodwork.
    She asked me what I did with Vaporizers, and how could she acquire one.
    I asked of her needs.
    Having lost 1/3 of her colon to diverticular surgeries as I did, I sympathized and related deeply.
    Diagnosed with Stage 4 GERDs
    Stage 4: Reflux induced precancerous lesions or esophageal cancer
    Stage 4 is the result of many years of untreated severe reflux. 10% of patients with long-term GERD progress to stage 4. They develop a pre-cancerous condition called Barrett’s esophagus. Barrett’s esophagus may progress to cancer if untreated. There are different modalities of treatment for Barrett’s esophagus aimed at preventing progression to cancer. Close follow up and management by a reflux expert is highly recommended.
    Next, her Doctor told her they found pre-cancerous cells in her lungs.
    He told her she must stop smoking MMJ immediately, or her time would be short between THAT visit and a more devastating diagnosis. She does not use tobacco.
    I met her for fear of strangers coming to our all too recently invaded home, at the Safeway Parking Lot.
    I brought her two vaporizers that fit her lifestyle and needs.
    She received for the road, and around the house an original Sutra vape (the thin small herbal one, with one temp setting). She was in love with the unit as she is a low temp vaporist with a preference for a high flavor profile.
    Next was the important part.
    She got a Vapor Brothers original box from @vaporbrothers
    This donated unit went through one hospice home, and was returned after the patient passed.
    Using a pile of ABV, and a cigarette lighter transformer, I taught her correct usage at the tailgate of the 1996 Explorer.
    She cried.
    I cried a little bit too.
    She had the unit for 24 hours, and called me to say: "You saved my life. I have not smoked in one full day, and I see no reason why I ever will again."
    She said I was a kind person, and that made me feel like a good person.
    Life is good.

    One member of a local forum, was given an MFLB, and a set of a 1/2 dozen batteries to last him a while.
    He did not thank me.... but rather wrote an indecent email to me.
    his words were:
    "Thank you for the free Vaporizer and meds. Please do not contact me again. While you helped me a great deal, I believe that you do good deeds for the reason of social approbation, and I can not be in communication with such a person as you".
    I looked up the term.
    It meant that I do things for people for acceptance.
    I responded to him saying:
    "why does it matter to you, if I do things to be accepted or because I just want to help... either way I am devoting my time, and obtaining resources, and freely sharing them with those in need."
    His response was " One way makes you a Saint, and the other makes you the Devil.... and my dreams told me you were the latter."
    Lesson learned....
    Do not take the words of patients in pain to heart.
    Pain makes you say things and interpret motives with a jaundiced eye.
    Keep on keeping on...
    and spread the love no matter what the skeptics say!
    Thanks for letting me share the afternoons recollections.
    I send love to all of you!
     
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  10. steama

    steama Well-Known Member

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    Thank you Vitolo for making giving possible. :nod: :clap:
     
  11. DDave

    DDave Vape Wizard Accessory Maker

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    This act of compassion will not go unmatched.

    @Vitolo , PM me your shipping address. I'd like to send over a box full of goodies for the recipient of the SSV. :cheers:


    Hopefully this starts a wave of compassion.... and hope for the other manufacturers, accessory makers, etc will follow.

    Why?

    When I take my family out for a hike, we always bring one extra heavy duty shopping bag with handles.
    And along the way, I pick up trash on the trail.
    Left the kids scratching their heads...
    So I answer their questions with a question... "Is there any rule that says I can't leave this place in better condition than I found it?"

    Same thing applies to vaping. When I leave this place, it will be in better condition than I found it... And it will have happened at a rate of one person at a time. :nod:
     
  12. Vitolo

    Vitolo Vaporist

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    Sad news, and glad news.
    @Amoreena donated an Ascent a while back.
    It served it's owner well.
    Sadly the family sent the unit back to me, thanking me, and PIF donor for making
    the end go smoother for the patient.
    Glad news is that the unit has already found a home with an Arthritic patient that can benefit
    from Ascent's system.
    The presentation will be tomorrow.
    Thanks to all of you for letting me share the "day to day" of Vape sharing!
    I see @Amoreena is an HerbalAire fan... Always a dound choice!
    @herbalaire ...Your units have been placed in a half dozen homes of local terminally ill and Chronically ill patients.
    Kudos for a solid unit with great versatility for patient use.
    I was sad when I gave my personal unit to a patient, but seeing them joyous was the reward.
     
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