Shit Snacks
Milaana. Lana. LANA. LANAAAA! (TM2/TP80/BAK/FW9)
Like @ataxian, I have had my adventures with glass, so I can understand your preference for wood.
The stem you pictured should be a good buy from ed’s.
Someone mentioned Solo/Air stem a just a tad small for the tM, but until ed’s markets his tM stems, I found
A thin O-ring an acceptable stopgap measure
Be careful pulling that out after a session, I bet that metal bowl will be hot as fuck!