ragnorokk
DERP
Go to your Post Office and complain -- it's a hassle to get ahold of a supervisor, but when I finally did, my carrier-related problems went away. I have the supervisor's name and number stored in my phone for next time, but both times I had carrier troubles, she got it sorted for me. Try to avoid the main counter line, unless that's the only place you can get someone to go look for their super. You will be displeased if you use the main line out of courtesy, I assure you.
It sounds like your carrier is lazy, but then again USPS is attempting to run on less funding than ever, so sometimes they have 1 dude doing 2 routes, and covering for a 3rd while someone is sick/on vacation. When they're expected to do the impossible, the unfortunate side effect is a stream of short cuts and poor service. The supervisor I mentioned reworked the way they handled "covered" shifts on the route I'm on, and I started getting my mail again
. The coils never glow but made short work of the crumble turning it into delicious tasting clouds of vapor in a matter of a few seconds. 
(don't understand why not)