I really wish we had this "if you die, you die" c'est la vie attitude after 9/11.
Less than 3,000 Americans died then. We went full on insane over that. Spent 6.4 Trillion dollars (and counting). Killed about a million people, a large chunk of them innocent civilians. Decimated our civil liberties.
But now, we can shrug off 135,000 American deaths as "just the flu. Suck it up". Nevermind the fact that a bad year will see 60,000 dying from influenza. And I sort of doubt the flu's gonna take a bye year this Fall and Winter too. Hospitals, especially in the northern latitudes, should be interesting this flu season. And by interesting I mean a hellscape.
Each of the fears are addressed
I don't think you've done that. I agree, younger people aren't likely to die from COVID-19. That's not what worries me personally. It's being waylaid in bed for a month after getting the disease, with the possibility of permanent damage fucking me in my later years. That type of serious but not deadly case isn't easy to capture in statistics. Especially for a novel disease that didn't exist 9 months ago. What the stats do show is 18-49 year olds are 3 times more likely to end up in the hospital for COVID than influenza.
If fear of the virus is the biggest problem, there were a number of things our government could've done to abate that. They chose to do none of it.