I placed my order over a month ago now. My expectations were it to come to NY not MD....
Ive never seen mail do that before so Im definitely a little nervous.
Give it some more time. Both my mine took 35-45 days to get here. Don't try to understand the USPS/Customs, they are not the brightest. Also some people above mentioned theirs doing the same thing but they still got the packages a few days later. You can also call the USPS for additional info you cannot get just from the tracking number. They can, for instance, double check that the address is correct and redirect if need be (extra money).
I've sold quite a few things on ebay and amazon though, so I have a different perspective. You are still in the shipping window most of us experience and you are wanting your money back. The problem is that it is still on its way to you. No way I would refund your money until I have confirmation that you have shipped it back to me. I'm a small seller though and feel any refund/returns or people that try to scam. Which brings me to my next point, the cost of refunds/exhanges are built into the cost of the products (well if you know what you are doing). This means the more refunds/exhanges the more the price will increase (by small amounts) for a given product. Now if you have a broken piece or you never get your product, you should absolutely get a refund/return/replacement. In your case however, IMO think it is selfish and maybe you regretted purchasing in the first place or worried about it not working or something. This is completely fine to be this way, but please don't purchase from places like DH gate. Especially if you are extremely worried about shipping time, quality, customer service, etc. You may have an awesome experience or you may have the worse (hopefully getting your money back). But cancelling before you even know the outcome (after the item has shipped) isn't understanding the system and totally putting the seller in a bad place.
Even the folks that ordered the eggs and then cancelled (before shipping) I don't completely agree with (should have waited to order until people got theirs first), but at least it wasn't completely self serving as it got CCG to understand (in dollars) the gravity of the situation and also fix any miscommunication with
@blankrider and get him a new piece. I don't expect everyone to share these same views (I never really thought about the seller much until I became one), but it sounds like most others feel pretty much the same way.
