dequelo
Plant Abuser
The Universe is our ultimate Protector.
no greater truth good thoughts and vibes to you and yours
peace and be safe
Dequelo
The Universe is our ultimate Protector.
Thanks for the updates Rick - this is truly a nightmare; I went through something similar but on a slightly lesser scale about 15 years ago - a vengeful ex who worked for EMS which works in tandem with LE, so a phone call on her part was all that was necessary to put me in a deep hole to climb out of, but I did. It is profoundly disgusting how some people exploit protective services to harm others. Our thoughts are with you and Pat.
I have an enlarged prostate and have a tough time peeing right. I can normally keep that situation under control. Last Wednesday she clinched up good. I must have tried to pee 30 or more times with only a dribble. They finally just let me stand in the yard with my back to the big crowd as I was in some severe pain from a over filled bladder. It took at least three hours after they left at noon, hot bath, etc before I got 'er drained right.
A bit of advice, Rick. Currently, I can no longer pee on my own and have to cath myself every three to four hours because my bladder no longer works. My prostate is 15 times the normal size. They could operate on it now, but it no longer makes sense being that my bladder is no longer functional. Why did this happen? Because I didn't have the TURP operation on my prostate sooner, when the symptoms first began and when I had my first case of acute retention like you had.
So a word to the wise. If I had to do it all over again, I would have had that operation, maintained a healthy bladder and would no longer have to cath myself every three to four hours.
Until then, I suggest you buy yourself some coude tipped caths along with some surgilube and learn how to self cath in the case of acute retention that you already experienced. What you DON'T want to happen is to have your urine back up into your kidneys which could cause kidney failure, which CAN be life threatening.
And yeah, I know that self cathing seems abhorrant, but after awhile, one can get used to anything and for me, it's become just a routine, but for you, you really need to be able to do this in case of acute retention and until you can have that TURP (roter-rooter) done on your prostate. Cathing for the first few times can be quite an experience, but it's nothing compared to permanent kidney damage.
Other than my plumbing, I'm in perfect health and I guess if I had a choice of ANY organ not working, it would be my bladder, but I really don't wish this on anyone.
If ya have ANY questions about this, please don't hesitate to ask, 'cause as of now, I AM an expert in this regard.
Hope this helps...............Take care mah friend. Know that you have people here who care.
Edit: And to all you younger guys who have not experienced this yet. Please take note.