Hey guys, Fuckcombustion is probably not the place for relationship advice but i thought i'd just try and briefly share with you my story and perhaps get some advice from people who i'd imagine have experienced the same thing 1 way or another in life. So a bit of back-story about myself. I am a huge cannabis advocate, enthusiast, connoisseur. I attend protests, collect loads of paraphernalia and heck! I've even made a well received documentary on the subject! I try to moderate my usage, i know some people on here smoke/vape every day... That's not me. I'll try to keep it to once... maybe twice a month.. (though lately it's been a bit more cause i had been away on holidays in Amsterdam). ANYWAYS! I'm getting off topic. So i met this new girl and i think she's really cool. Although in many ways we're complete opposites. She's conservative, i'm liberal. She believes in god, i'm Atheist. She has a very very low opinion on weed, i have a very high opinion of it. It's an odd situation because asides from these major differences we do really get along and there are a lot of things i like about her. She's a girl-gamer (a proper girl gamer), She's into horror movies, She's very loving and affectionate and understanding and respectful of our differences. Though she CLEARLY has an issue with my weed usage. When i get high she refuses to see me or even speak with me when i'm high. She's never really done drugs in her life and claims that she will never touch drugs because she has concerns of becoming addicted and dieing as a result, she also has anxieties over not being in control. I would never peer-pressure anyone to do drugs if they weren't interested, but it kind of upsets me that she intends to live her whole life not experiencing something that to me is amazing and realistically not really that harmful when compared to other drugs. Maybe i should point out that I'm not some crazy drug user or anything. I don't even drink alcohol or coffee! I don't go out to parties or live a dangerous lifestyle. I'll just sometimes vape or dab.. Though i feel guilty now every time i do it because of her and i never felt guilty about it before (nor do i want to). I wish there was something i could do to open her mind a little... It just makes me upset because i'm such a big pro-cannabis advocate... but if i can't even convince my girlfriend... what's the point :/.. Has anyone else ever been in with a girl like that? How did things turn out? Do you have any suggestions? Idk if fuckcombustion is the appropriate place to have an open-dialogue about these kinda things. But i'd just be interested to get some insight cause i know it's a lot of older people on here.. I'm 20 by the way.