Unfortunately for my wife and I, it is almost time to say goodbye to our "Patricia Snow" of 16 years. She has been diagnosed with cancer and will pass within a month or two. Neither one of us has been through the loss of a pet like this and are heart-broken. We love her dearly.
@hd_rider
I am sorry to hear of this!
She is very beautiful!
Not that you need advice, but for what it's worth I can offer from experience.... When it's time, let her go! Don't fall for promises of miracle cures, treatments that are intrusive or life extending... just keep her comfortable. If it gets to the point where the tradeoff is passing away or suffering for a few extra weeks, the passing away option will leave you with far fewer regrets.
Two years ago, we lost one of ours to cancer... a snowshoe Siamese of almost 21 years. She was the best friend/cat/companion...etc Now, it's her little brother's turn (not by blood relation, they just grew up together). A seal point Siamese of 20 years. This little boy we are quite proud of. Every bit the cat that our snowshoe was, but he was the runt of the litter... born with his sternum bent outward and a few other chest bones along with it. He wasn't to last 5 years.... but he showed everyone. (He doesn't have cancer, or any other affliction, but when they've been with you as long as ours have, you can tell when something's up.)
Stay strong and adopt another, if you can, when time allows for sufficient healing... there are so many that need a good home....and with a span of 16 years for your Patricia Snow, you definitely have that to offer!
DDave