I was raised in a very affluent community, so it was perfectly normal for everybody growing up to expect that they were going to be wealthy when they became adults. Many of those I grew up with are still there and they have a very entitled attitude being mostly white and wealthy and for some, leaning in to family wealth. Those were not my circumstances and I no longer live there because I would never be able to afford it, but also because they represent something that I do not. Even if I could afford to, I probably would not live there. Probably.
What I don't understand is why people who did not grow up under those circumstances believe that their future is likely a wealthy one, when they need only to look at the world around them to realize that the odds are against that being the case. I get wishful thinking, and I get the influence of television shows like Downton Abbey and Dallas and any number of other wealthy community stories, but how naive do we have to be to truly believe that our chances of beating the odds are that much greater than so many others? Enough so that we treat the world as if we had already gotten there and don't consider the plight of those who won't, even when they are the vast vast majority. The 99%.
It boggles the mind.