akwardsauce said:
im not really a cat person, but that cat is AWESOME! ucla-colored eyes!
I believe that most people who don't see themselves as cat people probably just don't really understand how cats communicate. Cats don't have eyebrows like dogs do - that is, they lack the muscles to make all those easily read humanlike facial expressions of dogs. And of course, they have much more independent mindsets. So you have to learn to read them in other ways.
Here's my trick to make friends with pretty much any but the most neurotic of cats:
You need to show them that you're not a threat, and that you don't feel threatened by it - that you're cool with its presence. So first thing is to lower yourself, so you don't loom over them - crouching down or sitting on the ground is good.
Then make eye contact with the cat for a couple of seconds, then gradually squint your eyes and shift your gaze away. You'll see cats often doing this too, so you can copy their behaviour. This isn't a sign of being aloof and disinterested, but rather a sign that you don't regard them as a threat, so you're relaxed and don't need to keep watching them. Do this, and the cat will most likely come right up to you to say hi.
Then put your hand out for the cat to sniff, and once it's ok with your hand and your scent you can give it a stroke along the neck and back and a scratch under the chin and behind the ears. And let it rub the back of its neck on you, so it can tag you with its scent. Bingo - one cat friend.
And here's a bit more related info -
Wikipedia - cat communication
PS pretty much all animals
love massage. Not just stroking the fur, but a kneading of the muscles. But of course they would, wouldn't they? And since most pets are much smaller than us, it really isn't much of an effort for us.