I know you're gonna love this story, Vicki, but it's about cats in a dog thread, but what the hell. An Alpha cat story.
Anyway, so I lived in this house and there was a feral cat living under it. Never gave it much mind. I saw it on very rare occasions. I had another pet cat (Deacon) who moved in with us there when he was about 12 years old. He died of cancer about 3 years later, but before he died, we wanted to get another cat, so we did. A cute black and white female kitten. Didn't make the last remaining days of the older cat very comfortable, which was kind of a drag.
Anyway, fast forward about 2 years. This female kitten, spayed and now 2yrs old, started, what I thought, to be behaving kind of strange. She would always wake me up in the morning to let her go outside, but what would now happen is that she would wake me up, I'd get up, go to the backdoor to let her out, but she didn't go out. She'd just sit inside and look up at me. After about a week of this, I started to get pissed. I'd get up to let her out and she wouldn't go out. She'd just sit there and look at me. I'd shut the door, go back to sleep and she'd just wake me up again to do the same damn thing again. I'd open the door and she'd just there. So after about a week of this shit, she woke me up, and this time, I opened the door and just left it open and went back to bed. I didn't want her fucking waking me up again.
As I was laying in bed that morning, looking thru the bathroom at a direct line of sight between the door that I left open and the cat food about 20 feet from the door, I noticed the feral cat coming in thru the door and very slowly walk toward the cat food. I got up and the feral freaked and split. The next morning I did the same thing. My cat woke me up, I opened the back door but I waited silently in the kitchen to watch. What happened next amazed me. The feral, very cautiously and slowly walks into the house looks around and begins to eat my cats food, while my cat sits about 6 feet away from her food and just watches. So, what she was doing when waking me up was not wanting me to let her outside, but in fact, wanted me to let the feral in for a meal.
Now there's this domestic cat that lives next door that will sometimes try to get into our yard and sometimes into the house to steal some food, buy my cat would never let her in. Came close to a few fights with lots of hissing and vocalizing but this feral was a whole other story. Every morning, she would wake me up and follow me as I went to open the back door, and she would just sit there in the house waiting for her buddy to come in and have a meal. She would just sit and watch that feral eat her food till he was finished and it was only after he left that she would go outside as well so I could finally shut the damn door.
Don't know why this Alpha dog talk made me remember that (probably 'cause this is an Alpha cat story), but there it is. Pretty neat, huh?