Congratulations!
One is not too bad...it is once they start to multiply, then your really done for.
I have 4. Well 4 kids, only one is an infant, the others are 3, 7 and 9. At first it was not a big deal, but as they get older and multiply you don't want to miss out on things. I am a regular medical user in a non legal state so I found it best to use concentrates only. Flower sessions were just too long. A few dabs can be done in no time and I am back to being superdad!
Good luck and good to hear you have a close friend in the same stage of life. It should make for some really tresaured and fun moments.