Ahh women, the 'special' species. A separate money account is needed for you my friend and a very friendly mate that has too much money also. Just to cover your back failing that give her a big 'fuck you' and walk in the house with your new threads
This has also happened to me matey the UK customs are a bunch of nosey baaastuards there isn't any need for it and I shall be passing it onto my admin team (mate that's dealt with them a few times before and has nothing to do) hopefully I'll be getting my refund from them