where I actually only focus on the idea in question and rarely if ever the person who originated it (because people are far too complex to judge them based on some small online post), but it's often seen as a personal attack or at least patronising. ...
FYI: In case it isn't obvious, I'm way in to the divergent spectrum so my comms are often easy to misinterpret, and for many they come across in a negative fashion and are read as having personal criticism in them, ...