I also understand where you are coming from and i agree it is not only for dating sites , so i possibly worded that in the wrong way & apologize for the confusion. I do strongly think that for a site like this it does not matter and really should not be a issue in the slightest unless you can provide me with some evidence why it would matter and pertain to a forum about fucking combustion. We are all here bc we are trying to or are fucking combustion and talking about the great devices that help us to do this , not our genders. To answer your other question which i also feel does not really pertain to the site in anyway , shape or form - "The question is, can someone be allowed to identify outside of binary sexual preference without it being only a SEX thing? " I will have to say yes to it. I am also not trying to start a argument in any way at all as i feel you are a cool forum member and have contributed allot and even helped me with some things here , i just had to chime in when i saw the topic bc of my big mouth and just feel that the original poster wanting more genders added to the fc site was not really a contributing factor to what we are all trying to do on this forum.