Melting Pot's Surgery Support Thread

Melting Pot

Melting Pot

Sick & Twisted
Not having herb is the least of my problems.
It just makes all the missery a little more bearable.
Foreclosure, medical shit,disabled, divorce, is getting to me.
Looking for appts,just the thought of moving away from my daughter makes me nauseous.
Whatever I just need to move on.
Thanks everyone for your kind words.
 
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VegNVape

VegNVape

Increase the Peace
Company Rep
Melting Pot said:
Wish I had bigger balls
I think the world would be better without me.
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MeltyPot, as you of course know, we have never met or even exchanged intimate photographs but I seriously think, that from where I'm sitting, your balls are fucking massive! :o

Wishing you had bigger balls is like Snoop wishing he had more weed!

It's just plain greedy, dogg!

And as for the 'world would be better . . .' - uh uh, no it wouldn't, and if only for the reason that this forum would not be better off without you, we would not be better off without you, and to be without you here, would be to everybody's detriment & disadvantage. And to know you, even as an internet persona, is a privilege that I do not take lightly.

We are all here for you bud.

Sending you pëåçêñlõvë
:peace:
 
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momofthegoons

momofthegoons

vapor accessory addict
Melting Pot said:
Wish I had bigger balls
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You know... that might be a 'watch what you wish for' kind of statement. I shudder to think what @dorkus_molorkus could do with that statement.... Dear Lord the pictures he might post... :uhoh:
Melting Pot said:
Someday I might find happiness, doubtful
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Know what? Only one way to go when you've hit rock bottom... and that's up. :nod:

Hang in there hon... better days are coming. They may take some work... but they're coming.
 
His_Highness

His_Highness

In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king
@Melting Pot - The black clouds will pass and the good ol' fluffy, thick, white ones will replace them.... and the great part is you won't have to chase those fluffy fuckers because they'll find you. Hang in there and bide your time...those clouds are a comin. Some will be vaped but others will just part to let the sunshine in. This is what happens to good folk and that's why I know it'll happen to you.
 
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vaplen

Well-Known Member
@Melting Pot I thought I had problems when I am only leaving for school. Got with a girl i really liked recently and moved away so I've been pretty down. Reading your story makes me feel like my problems are minimal. Keep your head up its a tough world. At least we share our fc family :)

Btw @Madcap79 you may have indirectly just given me a new band to get into "suicidal tendencies" so thanks for that
 
CarolKing

CarolKing

Singer of songs and a vapor connoisseur
@Melting Pot Try to stay as close as you can to your child. Take care of your health problems and stay healthy the best that you can by eating right and staying active. I'm sorry that issues feel so overwhelming, things have to turn around.

You will always be a dad even if you aren't living in the same house. Stay close to her and go to all the special events. Make sure your X keeps you up to date on her schedule. When she's in school you will want all the notices sent to you too. Keep the dad and child bond, don't let it slip away. Children need to have a relationship with their fathers.

Plenty of fathers stay in the household but they are terrible fathers, physical and emotionally abusive. Just be the best dad that you can be. I will be thinking about you, stay strong.

This is cute
 
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momofthegoons

momofthegoons

vapor accessory addict
@CarolKing is absolutely correct @Melting Pot ; little girls always need their daddy.

My father is a great example of a guy who 'checked out' when my parents got divorced. He found another woman (my mother's best friend) who had a child and started a new family. I became an after thought; someone who came by every other weekend. He gave my room to his new wife's daughter who was living with them for a while. She took all of my things that were still at the house. He wasn't there for me during my drug years, he never helped me financially, and he showed no interest in what was going on in my life. Then, when that wife died many years later, I jumped in and helped him through operations, clearing out the house, etc. I made sure he had food, cleaned his house, shopped for him.... I knocked myself out trying to help him through his depression. And then he hooked up with another woman (ironically, his wife's best friend). And I became chopped liver again. I never hear from him, I don't feel welcome in his 'girlfriend's' house (where he lives now). And I have come to realize he's a self absorbed ass.

I know you will never be that man Melting Pot. You have too much heart. You will fight to stay in your daughter's life. :)
 
Melting Pot

Melting Pot

Sick & Twisted
@momofthegoons thanks for sharing that.:wave:
Me & my daughter are very close. I've been disabled not working since birth so we spend alot of time together.
Put her in daycare about 6 months ago for social & getting her ready for school she is my world.:nod:
It's just the way it is my sister was a daddy's girl and I was momma's boy. I guess what I'm saying is she won't be able to keep me out of her life.:myday:
The 3 of us had an awesome day at the beach today, so confusing ???:\
Anyway thanks everyone for the awesome support. :nod::cool:
 
mvapes

mvapes

Scratchin' Glass!
Accessory Maker
@Melting Pot - you know were in the same sinking boat. In fact, our boats are almost identical. The only difference is is that I realized that my boats worth fixing.

We know each other outside of FC and although we don't speak as often as I'd like to I know how much of an awesome dude you are. Your better than this, your health is going to get better. You know how it goes and let's be honest, your life isn't exactly helping get you into a position of healing. Since weve met healing hasn't been on the horizon for you and that has to change.

Brother, only you can do this and from what I've seen I'm pretty sure you got this shit! Trust me, my life is no paradise right now and you know that. But having friends like you make me it easier for me every day and give me that strength I so very much need.

Keep your chin up (unless there's balls across them). Your heart is special, it was given to you for a reason. G-d knew you could handle it and so do we.

So with that being said, go put on that fishnet shirt and leather pants and get back back to what you do best! Being a good father and friend.

Btw, consider yourself lucky that it wasn't @momofthegoons having smacking some sense into you. I've been there, ask @dorkus_molorkus - she could be violent!

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CarolKing

CarolKing

Singer of songs and a vapor connoisseur
Checking in on you today. @Melting Pot I hope you are feeling a little better. Take each day as it comes and concentrate on healing your body and your feelings. Getting out and doing some sort of exercise if you are able. Just walking outside can help your state of mind. Doing something with a friend and getting out of the house.

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Melting Pot

Melting Pot

Sick & Twisted
Thanks @momofthegoons
I wanted to share this in my support thread.
It was very humbling to say the least.

Last Friday I picked my daughter up from school we went to a park for a picnic.
While we were there a women showed up with a little boy wich later learned he was her grandson.
Her son had passed away 2 months earlier. He was only 26. After a little while of talking I asked how her son passed.
Turns out he had the same disease I have.
Made me think for a minute.
I should be happy I'm around for my daughter.
I know I'm not the most positive person on the planet.
I guess what I'm trying to say is thank you to everyone for trying to keep my spirit up, when I'm not really putting forth the effort myself.
Thanks
MP
 
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