Ginni, you need to read the rules.
"Public discussions of staff decisions are not permitted on the site. If you have any concerns or queries relating to a staff decision please take it up in private with a staff member."
And you also posted this same post over in the "Welcome to Fuck Combustion" thread, which makes absolutely no sense.
Suggestion and a bit of friendly advice. Take a deep breath, read the rules, and start over.